50 Over 50: Sue
I’ve had this idea sitting in my head for a while now.
It’s about getting older. And not in the way we usually talk about it. Because here’s what I see, over and over again—especially when I’m behind the camera. Women (and men) who immediately go to:
“I look so old.”
“I’ve gained weight.”
“Look at these wrinkles.”
And I get it. I really do. I’ve said all those things myself. Think them quite often.
“ This season of my life is about reclaiming and rebuilding – unapologetically and joyfully – strong enough to stand firm, and soft enough to let the goodness in.”
But here’s the thing—I also get to meet some incredible people. Strong, funny, vulnerable, kick-ass, real people who’ve lived, made mistakes, bounced back, and kept going. People with stories, resilience, and a kind of quiet power that doesn’t need anyone else’s approval.
And I see it all around me—this is my world, my social circles, the people I meet behind the camera. Kids are leaving. Careers are shifting. The focus isn’t on them anymore. It’s on us. It’s about waking up the parts of ourselves that have been quiet for a while, and noticing just how far we’ve come. And the beauty that is there.
And no, maybe it’s not the youthful beauty we once knew. It’s actually even cooler. It’s earned. And it’s radiant in a completely different way.
So I want to create space for that.
I want to give people the opportunity to celebrate themselves—to see themselves—and maybe, give themselves a bit of a hug instead of pointing out everything they think is wrong.
That’s where this project comes in.
It’s my 50 Over 50.
I want to photograph 50 people over the age of 50. Not for their website. Not for LinkedIn. Not for work.
Just for them. Because there’s a lot more to turning 50… or 60, or 70, or 80, or 90… than a number.
First of all, it’s a privilege. Not everyone gets there.
And within those years, there’s been a lot. Resilience. Growth. Heartbreak and healing. And thankfully, a whole lot of wisdom—usually earned the long way around… whether our kids choose to listen to it or not.
I know each photo session will look a little different, depending on the person.
But one thing I do know is this: I want to include their words alongside the images. Not just to see these stories—but to read them. To understand the moments, the experiences, and the turning points that have shaped who they are.
Everyone will share in their own way, and only what they feel comfortable sharing—but I have a feeling this will be a really meaningful part of the project.

So… let’s get this started!
Let me introduce Sue. She’s one of my favourite people out there—and a fellow ginger to boot!
We first met during an interview way back in 1996. I didn’t get the job the first time, but thankfully, she came to her senses the next time they needed someone—and hired me!
So Sue was my boss when I first started at AIR MILES, and we worked together for many years. Over that time, our friendship grew—not just at work, but through golf nights, Tuesday mahjong, and so many special evenings with our group of friends. Now we’re even moving into Canasta nights!
I’ve been lucky to photograph her beautiful four daughters over the years. One of my favourite memories was when she came into the studio with three of her daughters, all well into school at the time. She said, “Well, we’re going to need you for another photo shoot soon.”
I was expecting an outdoor family shoot with all of them… but then she dropped it: “It will be a newborn shoot.” I almost fell over! And sure enough, months later we had a beautiful newborn session.
Sue is a solid human through and through, and I’m beyond thrilled that she said yes when I asked to photograph her for 50 Over 50.
“I have to admit, I was a bit nervous about my photo shoot. I don’t always love what I see when I look in the mirror these days… a face that looks older than I feel inside. I’m also not someone who seeks the spotlight; I tend to feel more comfortable in a supporting role. So this felt a bit outside my comfort zone.
What a gift when Janet sent the photos and the woman that shone through was truly… me.
I feel as though I’ve lost pieces of myself over the years, that my light has dimmed along the way. There are many reasons for this. I don’t think it’s uncommon for women our age, though each of our stories is different. But lately, I’ve begun to feel those parts of myself reemerging… my spark is returning. And these photos help me to see that more clearly.
I love that I have images that reflect who I am at this stage of life. Photos that my daughters can look back on one day… reminders of their mom during a stage that, while complicated, was filled with laughter and so much love.”
Thanks so much Sue!
Janet

And if the 50 over 50 idea this speaks to you, let me know. I’m still working out the details of how it will all come together, but I would love to hear from you if you feel drawn to be part of it.
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